The positions we hold as men within the family structure and in society is irreplaceable. Within the family unit, we are entrusted with the responsibility of leading and helping those in our care prepare for life. Psalms 127:1 says, “Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain; unless the Lord guards the city, the watchman stays awake in vain.” God has given us a leadership role in the family, one that requires His oversight and guidance to righteously fulfil. However, many men continue to ignore this admonition.   
    According to a 2020 U.S. Census report, there were 18.3 million children raised in fatherless homes. When men wander away from their fatherly or priestly roles, the lives placed under their care are affected. Statistics show that roughly 85% of imprisoned youth come from fatherless homes. Studies also indicate that sons with absent fathers are more likely to become absent fathers themselves. This is going to remain unchanged if we keep trying to build without using God’s code.
    Men, it is time for us to address the issues that have left so many of our sons languishing behind the prison walls of resentment, pain, and unforgiveness. Whether it is to rebuild the relationship or to restore what was lost, it is time for us to take our rightful place at the helm and end this cycle of negligence. 
     Truthfully, there will be moments when we must hear painful truths about our actions or admit that we did not know what we were doing. Nevertheless, God is there for whatever we may need. We cannot truly make these wrongs right without His love and support. So do not let pride or fear stop you from taking the lead. It is through His power and the leading of the Holy Spirit that we will gain the wisdom and courage to apologize for not being there when it mattered most.